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He Was Abandoned By His Parents For Being Ugly But Perseverance Changed His Life

I was born with a genetic condition that affects my facial features. I have no cheekbones, and so my eyes dip down. I love my little ears, they don’t get cold at night. But I do need hearing aids. I’m one of the lucky ones.”

This is what Jono Lancaster said while delivering a speech at NORD (National Organization for Rare Disorders) conference on October 21, 2015, in Washington D.C.

Jono suffers from Treacher Collins Syndrome. He is a public figure now, and has been living his life, defying all odds and breaking all the shackles! He, despite suffering from this major disorder, is not letting his enthusiasm to fade!

Jono, who is from West Yorkshire, UK, was born on October 31, 1985. He is the subject of the BBC documentary Love Me, Love My Face.

Read his full story below.

Jono has Treacher Collins Syndrome.

Jono has a genetic disorder which affected the way his facial bones developed, his eyes dropped downwards and he required a hearing aid. This type of condition is observed only in 1 out of 50,000 people in the US and about 1 in 10,000 in the UK. More physical features of the syndrome include a small lower jaw and partly drooping of lower eyelids.
In life, he has learnt to stay positive.

Jono is not sad about this. He says he’s lucky, as many people with Treacher Collins Syndrome need up to 70 separate surgeries to make their lives bearable. Inspirational, he is!

His parents left him alone!

His parents decided they couldn’t deal with his condition and they dumped him at a social service centre just 30 hours after his birth. He was later adopted by a woman named Jean Lancaster.

He’s not at all like the other boys.

It was at school that Jono learned he wasn’t the same as other boys, “They’d pull their eyes down, or run away, yelling that they’d catch my disease. I’d ask Jean why they did that, and she’d cry. Then I felt guilty that I’d made my mom cry.”

After growing up…

Jono was bullied at school, and he hated his own appearance for a long time.

The turnaround in his life.

Jono was lashed out by his boss at a bar where, he thought, everyone was laughing at him. This incident changed his life.

Fate changes with time.

Today, Jono works as an inspirational teacher talking about Treacher Collins. “My parents still want nothing to do with me,” he says, “What’s changed is my attitude, and that’s so powerful. […] I wouldn’t change any of it. My attitude was more disabling than anything. With the right attitude, you can achieve anything.”

At the NORD conference, Jono Lancaster said,

“My birth parents had no idea. When I was born, they were in total shock. I was out of the hospital 36 hours after I was born. Social services found someone to look after me. The foster carer was a lady called Jean. She was very short, and all her kids were grown, and she had so much love to give.”

Jono is an inspiration for sure!

At present, he is travelling around the world and encouraging people of his kind, to deal with this with a positive attitude. Jono made his mark at the NORD (National Organization for Rare Disorders) conference on October 21, 2015, in Washington D.C. by sharing his story.

Today, surely Jono is much better off.

With the help of Jean, he is now living a happier life. He believes that one must not allow any negative energy to pull one down and stay away from negative thoughts and attitude.

There was also a point in Jono’s life when he hated himself for being who he is.

But, as time heals all wounds, today we can see that smile on his face and that is what drives many of those whom he meets daily.

 

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