Everyone talks about things a man doesn’t understand about women, but very few people would have known about the problems faced by men when women do not understand them. No one ever realized the pain of men, they too suffer at the hands of biology.
If you want to understand a man inside out then you have come to right place. Here are few problems that have been mentioned by men which they feel it difficult to understand for a woman. So when this question was posed to men “What problems of men’s life women are hardly aware of?” then the feedback turned out to be these 20 top received points.
1. Why Should We Not Ask For A Help?
Yes, it’s a general norm that man can do everything on their own and they do not require any help. Even man needs help and it is normal. If a man needs help then why he get weird looks? May be they just need a little more time to learn that. And even a man is a Human, not a Robot!
2. Even We Love Getting Compliments Too
Even guys want to hear compliments from women other than his Mother. Women compliment each other all the time but when it comes to men women don’t give a men enough compliments. If you feel a guy is handsome then just tell him. Chances are he had never heard in a long time.
3. Why Only We Have To Make The First Move
Let’s be real, it ain’t easy always. Why men have to make the first move? Come on. dynamics have been changed like some years ago and still, men have to make the first move. Every man thinks “Why do guys always have to make the first move? Ladies First! Remember?”
4. Why Are We Expected To Be Strong Always, What About Our Sensitive Side?
“Why we are never allowed to show our weakness?” Men also have the right to be sensitive, they don’t cry like ladies all the time doesn’t mean they are emotionless or meant to be tough all the time. Even men have right to cry and throw out all his frustrations.
5. Our Inefficiency To Remember Fine Points
Women never understand that it’s not that men forget things but it is just that they do not place same attention to small things. Men are good at movies quotes, sports statistics or political incidents, but when it comes to what his girl was wearing on their first date, well you simply can’t expect silly things from him.
6. Dealing with Testicles
One thing women will never ever understand is how it feels getting kicked in these guys. A short message every guy will like to give to girls will be “Ladies, FYI getting your balls hit is far more painful than you can ever imagine!”
7. Never Doubt On Our Capability At Multitasking!
Why ladies always think that guys aren’t good at multitasking? Yes, even men can cook, handle kids with their homework, teach them discipline and clean all at the same time. While for a woman it is difficult to answer a simple question with TV on.
8. It’s Totally Fine If We Are Quiet
There is nothing to worry about or think about if men choose to remain silent sometimes. Nothing is wrong when guys are quiet, they don’t prefer to speak all the time like ladies do.
9. Who Said Guys Have Zero Emotional Support Structure
It is very difficult for men to deal with comments about no emotional support structure throughout every stage of life from young to adult life. If a guy mentions about his opinion or his real emotion in front of anyone he has to go through jokes and laughs.
10. We Can Not Hide Spots – Why?
In this era, many people think “Men cannot wear makeup to even hide spots”. Why women have all the liberty? An actor can use makeup to hide spots and look good on television, but why can’t other men cannot use makeup?
11. Women Only Flirts, Never Ask Us Out
In today’s era, girls do flirt with guys but they do not ask them out. Men also want if the girl is flirting with them then they should approach men without any hesitation because even men wish that girls should ask them out.
12. “Be A Man!” – Cut The Crap
What is wrong with people? Every now and then they come up with the shitty phrase saying “Be a man!”
13. We Understand Straight Talks, We Are Not Too Good With Hints
Men do not understand or like playing the Hint Game, they believe in straight and direct talks. Get to the point and tell them what you need/ what you want or what you mean. Do not engage their mind in giving hints because men are not interested in understanding any lame hints also.
14. It’s Totally Out Of Your Imagination How We Feel About Losing Hair
For men losing hair and getting bald slowly is really too disturbing. For a man losing his hair slowly, the world turns upside down because one day he is a young chap and another day he is a middle aged man with diminishing hairline.
15. We Are Incredibly Anxious About Our Looks
Yes, it is true! Guys are not so insecure about their looks as women think.So Ladies, never feel sorry for Guys who do not have six pack and 6-feet height as they do not want 10/10.
16. We Actually Mean What We Say
Ladies, please understand there is no hidden meaning behind what men say. They mean what they speak. It’s that simple to understand. Men never mean more than what they say.
17. Even We Like Back Rub and Emotional Support
Why always women expect from a man to rub his back? Even a man needs a back rub in return every once in a while from to drive all his stress away. Men also need her emotionally the way women need him.
18. Even Guys Can Be Sexually Harassed Too
It’s fact! There have been increasing cases of men being harassed and these are serious problems
19. Yes, We Do Not Want To Hear About Your Periods
We cannot hear about the blood and will rather prefer to believe these stuff doesn’t exist. There’s nothing personal for man. But, just think that what is good about to discuss regarding the periods with them? They cannot bear the idea of imagining about red spots and blots.
20. Sex Is All Cure – Really?
Women can really think to an extent that for a man sex works as a medicine? What if a man just lost a job and his mother is in a hospital? Do you still think he will be all decked up for a sex?
Like most of the women are unaware of the fact men also suffer from many psychological adversities. But they bury it underneath because it is too “unmanly” to have and express those psychological difficulties. It’s a huge shame with it for a man.
Men have their own problems and it’s natural, women need to understand at times.